Emails

Who can email me?

How do I know if I have received any emails?

Can I receive emails without subscribing?

When someone contacts me, where does the message go and how do I respond?

I received an email from lgrdating.co.uk saying I have unread messages. Do I have to upgrade my membership to get them and reply?

How can I see who I have contacted?

How can I decline contact?

Can I still email a member who’s on my blocked list?

How can I unblock another member?

I received an email from another lgrdating.co.uk member, but when I try to reply, I get taken to a subscription page. Why is that?

How can I see who has contacted me?


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Who can email me?
Any Subscriber of lgrdating.co.uk can contact you.

When someone sends you an email, it goes straight into your Inbox on the site. We also send a notice to your personal email address to let you know it's there. As a Subscriber you may read any note by simply logging in to the site and going to your Inbox. Then, from each member's note, you can click straight through to the person's profile and check it out.

If you would like to respond to the email, click reply, write your own note and click send. Your email will go straight into the member's onsite Inbox, and we'll let them know it's there by sending a notice to his or her personal email address.

All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information until you feel completely ready. When you are ready to take it to the next level, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person.

If you're not interested in someone who wrote to you, we recommend sending a friendly "no thank you" email. You can also stop a member from sending messages by clicking "ignore."
How do I know if I have received any emails?
You need to go into the My Message section link in the menu at the top of the screen and click on your inbox.
Can I receive emails without subscribing?
Yes, you may read your emails for FREE. Simply visit and open the ‘My Messages’ section to see who’s interested in you!
When someone contacts me, where does the message go and how do I respond?
Once you have created your own profile, other members can start contacting you. We’ll let you know you have messages waiting for you by sending a notice to your personal email address. If you are already a subscriber to lgrdating.co.uk, then log in and pick up the messages at your personal onsite Inbox. Your Inbox is available exclusively to Subscribers. Once you are a Subscriber, you can read all incoming messages, respond to the members who contacted you, and initiate contact with whomever you like. With your personal onsite email, you’ll always remain anonymous and in control.
I received an email from lgrdating.co.uk saying I have unread messages. Do I have to upgrade my membership to get them and reply?
Yes. Unrestricted email is only available to Subscribers. You need to subscribe to reply to a member who writes to you. As a subscriber you can read the note in your onsite Inbox, click reply to write your note and send away.

Your note will go straight into the member's onsite Inbox, and we'll let them know it's there with an email to their personal email address.

All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information until you feel completely ready. Then when you are, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person.
How can I see who I have contacted?
All notes that you send are kept in the "Sent" section of your Messages until you choose to delete them.

In addition, you can see a list of all the members you have contacted in your blackbook hot list.
How can I decline contact?
If you’re not interested in someone who wrote to you, we recommend sending a friendly “no thank you” note. You can also stop a member from sending messages by clicking on ‘My Blocks” in the menu at the top of the page.
Can I still email a member who’s on my blocked list?
Yes, you may email or flirt at a member you’ve previously blocked. However, they cannot respond until you unblock them.
How can I unblock another member?
Click on ‘My Blocks in the menu at the top of the page. Select from your list of blocked profiles and unblock the member you choose.
I received an email from another lgrdating.co.uk member, but when I try to reply, I get taken to a subscription page. Why is that?
Only subscribers enjoy the exclusive ability to contact each other via email. It’s free to read your emails, but you must subscribe in order to respond to another member’s email or initiate an email of your own. Subscribe today to start or continue a conversation!
How can I see who has contacted me?
All notes from other members go straight into your Inbox on the site and are kept there unless you choose to delete them. To read any note, simply login to the site and go to your Messages. Then, from each member's note, you can click straight through to their profile to check them out.

In addition, you can see a list of all the members who have contacted you in your hot lists.